Being a calm person who doesn’t snap immediately is annoying because once I do go off, everyone looks at me as though I’m insane. Like we really finna

Know exactly what you mean. At home & work I don't say much of anything. But when I see my xgf (I'm still friends with her mom and brother so I I see them fairly often), after about 5 minutes of listening to her attitude I end up saying goodbye & leaving at world record speed.