Maybe if I looked better someone would actually accept me and see worth in me you know?

That's why I've been working extra hard on losing weight because maybe I'm not seen as good enough. That's the issue I'm not good enough for anyone or anything. I never have been.

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Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M

Nah that's not true. It's a self imposted judgement, you're not good enough for yourself. I understand that as I've been through it a lot too. By all means, do things that make you feel better, I'm losing body fat and gaining muscle for instance, but don't beat yourself up.

You'll meet people who'll like you and they'll like you for who you are, you have to be open with them and be yourself. You can work on that and figure it out over time.

apersonnamedit · 26-30, T

@Ryannnnnn That's true I'm not good enough for myself. Gahhhh it's so complicated

Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M

@apersonnamedit It doesn't have to be haha. We just make it so. Why do you feel you feel like you're not enough in comparison to others?.