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The few people who associate with me know that my wife was supposed to be moving out by the end of last month.Then that changed to the end of this month. Now she is talking about not being able to leave until.the end ofthe year.
I already lost a potential roommate for last month because she stayed.
The she told my friends Christine and Angela who were gonna stay with me when she moved out she had no problem with them staying iwith me (like she had a choice in the matter), they were prepared to start staying with me by Dec. Now, she may not leave until the new year.
What do I tell my friends, she kinda has them out in limbo.
My wife and I both told them they can stay with us until she loves out, but they want to wait.
Crap.
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Jenandra · 51-55, M
Hope things go well man....
Groofydorkgerdo · 56-60, M
Oh I'm sure they will. Thank you for your kind thoughts .
Jenandra · 51-55, M
Just remember that distance things always seem to create issues as you can't actually be with your wife until she physically moves to you....it's so hard...
Groofydorkgerdo · 56-60, M
@Jenandra: No, she is here now, waiting for her to.move out. Don't want her hurting for anything but I really need her gone, as much as she need to be gone.
Jenandra · 51-55, M
Ohhh ....yes when that happens you want her gone yesterday...sorry I got it wrong...

She really needs to make a move when she says she will otherwise hurt is going to drag....

At some point you will have to be cruel to be kind and show her the door...
Groofydorkgerdo · 56-60, M
@Jenandra: it not he, it the apartments, they aren't finished yet, and she doesn't get along with any of her family enough to stay with them until the places are done.
Jenandra · 51-55, M
Understood....so your brave and keeping her there...you are such an amazing person....if it were the other way around she would probably not be so kind
Groofydorkgerdo · 56-60, M
@Jenandra: Thank you for your kind words.