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I was with my mother in her final hours of her death

Late last night I did the hardest thing I've ever had to do. I said my final thoughts, prayers, and told my mother I loved her.

I'm not a super religious person, but I do pray. I stood over her, and put my hand on her shoulder, and prayed for my mother to be brave and prayed for her to have the strength & courage to seek her peace and calmness.

I shared with her that I knew she did the best she could for me & my siblings. I explained to her that she doesn't have to worry anymore because your children and husband are prepared and ready for her to be calm, painless, free from anything that hurts.

I told her I loved her. Kissed her on the cheek. Then, sat quietly and prayed silently with traditional Catholic prayers, as we're Catholic.

After I left her side, I continued prayers prayers for her peace, strength, courage, serenity into the morning. I wanted her not to in so much pain from the illness...she died 4 hours later.

The power of prayer & what it can do in times like this, is something I will never forget. I feel calm. I feel peace. I feel nothing but love, and I am fully embracing it because I am finally healing with her in my heart, and in my soul. I feel it...
Ynotisay · M
Wow. I'm feeling for you and appreciate you sharing that.
Making her feel good about her life and giving her the comfort in knowing that those she cared about would be ok? That's about as selfless and loving thing that someone can do.
You're a good daughter. And a good person. Your Mom raised you well. Just remember that when a parent passes they're never far away.
SimpleMinded · 51-55, F
@Ynotisay thank you. I need to hear that.
Warm strong hugs .... sorry for your loss

Thank you for expressing how you approached prayer and your prayer to help your mom transit the veil between heaven and earth.

Others will read your writing.

Your prayer helped free your mom to enter the grace of forever life.


May peace and healing be your companion.

May angels of mercy, love and faith be close to you.

In fellowship

Peace of the Lord
Pretzel · 61-69, M
I lost my dad last year - because of covid I couldn't be with him as he faded - I'm sorry for your loss - and applaud your strength in being with her and saying that things that needed to be said.

may she truly rest in peace.
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TexChik · F
You were there for her . That was what you should have done . As horrible as that was for you it was that amazing for her. You honored your mother . I’m sorry for your loss,
SW-User
May she rest in peace, and may Angels comfort all of those who loved her. Please accept my sincere condolences to you, and your family.
Pinkstarburst · 51-55, F
Praying for you and your family. My deepest sympathies for your loss.
Noworries72 · 51-55, M
I said goodbye to both my parents in their final moments. So… when I say I’m sorry, I mean it. I was previously such a stranger to death…you will discover you have an empathy for others that you couldn’t have any other way. It’s a high price to pay, I know… but you can comfort others now with a different perspective. Kindest regards.
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I'm sorry for your loss
fun4us2b · M
So sorry for your loss. So good that you were with her. She'll always be with you, I still hear my Mom's voice so many years later.
Darkskiescoming · 51-55, M
Sorry for your loss, been there with both parents. My heart goes out to you.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I am so very sorry for your loss.
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