I Have Something to Say

So this is were I have a problem. I'm not comfortable talking always with males due to the irritation I have as a result of my been abused when I was younger and the girls I try to talk to and I like seem not to like me the way I like them.Today clarified the idea of hoping that a girl I admired would not have that same likeness for me. And I think i've wanted something that cannot come from girls I like. So my question is, how do I live without talking or relating with girls? And what do you think is the best action to take in my situation?