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Carla1951 · 70-79, F
My dear, you are feeling lonely. I get that. I know well the feeling. But lonely secluded people are not going to help you find a friend. When in a crowded room open up your own voice and speak out your opinion. IF you get 'The Look', you then know you have approached them wrong. Merely step back and wait. There is going to be at least one person that sees what you seek and may help you find your quest. I am a shy person. Yet I feel others' sadness. Often I fear approaching because they may consider my thoughts as rude.
I have often simply stayed back and listened. Nodding my own head as I agreed with the speaker.
Once I was eves-dropping and when one told me their conversations were private that I had to leave... I merely stated, "Then who is Spock and might he/she mind meld so I might find understanding of this quest as well?" Use of BIG words help.
After all, at the time we all were in line at a courtyard Shopping Mall.
Don't fight back. Prepare something comical or cute to have at least ONE member smile.
I have often simply stayed back and listened. Nodding my own head as I agreed with the speaker.
Once I was eves-dropping and when one told me their conversations were private that I had to leave... I merely stated, "Then who is Spock and might he/she mind meld so I might find understanding of this quest as well?" Use of BIG words help.
After all, at the time we all were in line at a courtyard Shopping Mall.
Don't fight back. Prepare something comical or cute to have at least ONE member smile.