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ShadowSteel · M
No - it takes two people to make a marriage work. Its both your mother and your father's fault. The man that married your mom is your mother's fault. Blaming your dad for that is wrong. Be mad at your mother.
kh0605 · 36-40, F
@ShadowSteel my father abandoned my mom and me when i was only two years old. the man who was always supposed to be there for me was never there for me. i've only met him once in my life when i was six years old. and i wasn't even told that he was my dad. he disappeared forever after that. the only reason my mom ended up marrying such a horrible human being was because of all the abuse and pain he put on my mom. i'm not saying my mom is perfect but it's my father who started everything
ShadowSteel · M
@kh0605 I doubt your dad is 100% at fault. [u]It takes two people to abuse each other[/u].
At 2 years old, I doubt you 100% understand the story of what happened to you. I think your mom has alienated you from your father more than you understand.
I would be interested to know your fathers side of the story. You should also learn to forgive him for whatever mistakes he has made. He is still your father regardless. One day he will be dead and you won't have one.
No offense, but your mom is not a good parent for alienating you from him.
At 2 years old, I doubt you 100% understand the story of what happened to you. I think your mom has alienated you from your father more than you understand.
I would be interested to know your fathers side of the story. You should also learn to forgive him for whatever mistakes he has made. He is still your father regardless. One day he will be dead and you won't have one.
No offense, but your mom is not a good parent for alienating you from him.
kh0605 · 36-40, F
i am aware that all i know is what my mom told me. but it doesn't change the fact that my father decided to abandon me. if he truly cared about his daughter, he should have stayed even if his relationship with my mom was falling apart. just because things fall apart between you and your wife, doesn't mean you get to just abandon your daughter. what could i have possibly done as a two year old to make my father abandon me? even when he saw me when i was six, he didn't have the courage to tell me who he really was. he introduced himself as my uncle, bought me a doll and disappeared forever. i trust my mom and believe what she has told me because she didn't abandon me like my father did.
