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I think the real reason why guys have a hard time talking to girls is well,insecurity and the reason why girls seem easier to talk with each other its the same as guys do with guys,talk with the other gender can be really hard especially when many girls are not easily entertained which is wrong,i'm not here to entertain you,i'm here to get to know you,if you think we are equal I shouldn't have to do that.

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RemovedUsername8862 · 26-30, M

Eh, I think there's a lot of baggage put on everybody: Guys being pressured to act in certain ways, girls being pressured to accept or cater to their interest. Interactions are hard, and social morays and norms don't help.

DannyVD · 26-30, M

everyone with their flaws yeah,I think they should accept each their own but no one really does that..

RemovedUsername8862 · 26-30, M

@DannyVD Well, it's a difficult thing to do, and it requires a lot of energy to not react to annoying idiosyncrasies and whatnot. Most would probably say it isn't worth whatever they'd get out of it.

DannyVD · 26-30, M

funny enough is that I try to be nice and still get almost no reaction most of the time xD for girls guys are either boring or annoying rip

RemovedUsername8862 · 26-30, M

@DannyVD Stick with it, but don't fall into the misconception that anybody owes you anything. You aren't buying their affection - you're giving them a gift, and it's their choice if they want to gift anything back to you.

DannyVD · 26-30, M

Yes I know that know,I wont stick around and accept anything anymore.

RemovedUsername8862 · 26-30, M

@DannyVD So, are you giving up? I'd advise against it - just don't rush anything. You've got time, no need to pressure yourself or others. Just go with the flow.

DannyVD · 26-30, M

no I just wont chase them and accept anything x D