I Have a Question

Well, this is how I see it. Knowing how many partners they have had is okay. If they tell you and trust you with that information.. But to take it beyond just knowing I.e: making them tell you about them, asking how many times, making them feel guilty about it. That is never okay. Knowing is okay. Because we are curious by nature, and it is your partner, you will learn everything about them. But you can never force it. Ever.

No. When I started dating my boyfriend a few years ago, it never came up. That was nice because my ex was obsessed with my past partners. I think the need to know may reflect some insecurity.

No. the past is the past.

I never cared. I could kind of tell by their ability to negotiate with John Thomas.

well at my age and the age she is to be (50's) I don't think it would be an issue

I agree completely voice-of-melody. Nothing should be forced. I just feel like so many secrets can ruin a relationship while being patient and letting things happen on their own time is the best option.

I don't need to know, I wouldn't bother asking either. Rather a guy who talks about his past affairs to me is a turn off.

They have a general right to risk information for stis and relationship risk.

Nope ;3

Why does this have to matter. It doesn't matter. You are today, from who you were in the past. Everything you experience creates you. So every person your bf/gf has been with, has changed and brought them to this point. To you..

I've prefer to know♥️

Me too Qtbumblebee

I would like to know, not that I care.

No, not interested.

I'd rather know....cuz like when my ex told me all her ex boyfriends left her a ton of red flags shot up 😳

yea i ask, & then leave it too that, i wanna know honestly how much unprotected sex you've had, seriously if i love u i want it raw, so... before that we'd both take stds test, no reason for me to take but aint wanna offend nobody so i take it too... but yeaa thats only if i love you if i like you, condom it up, but id still ask just to know if any bitches gonna be running up my back to get him back