I Have a Question

How do I forgive the person who killed my cat?

I can't even look at him right now. I hate how everyone is acting like nothing happened. It's been four days, and everyone else is over it or walking on eggshells around me (which makes it worse.) Winstons sister Chloé has oddly become more affectionate. And I don't really know how she's actually feeling. I assume she's grieving.

*As a side note, members of my family have been killed before but for some reason this feels different. Someone killed the family dog about 10 years ago and I didn't feel like this. I assume it's because I know the person who killed Winston.*

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Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F

hm depends on how killed and whether it was an accident? Like on the road accidentally hit the cat while driving? It still doesnt make it any less painful but.... if he killed your cat deliberately that is a different matter... personally i'd smack him hard.. repeatedly.. or if i were smart and could control my temper i would report him to the equivalent of the RSPCA. Deliberately killing an animal is evil and people who do that tend to go on to harm people.. so needs to be stopped.

If it were an accident.. please know i understand.. i lost cats that were hit by cars... I keep them in now.. housecats.. nothing was worth that pain of losing a cat like that way before it should have died.