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Ok, I would just like your thoughts on this one. I want to go on holiday this year and I was going to go with my best friend and were planning on going abroad. All good you might think, but she has a Spanish male friend who she fancies a lot, who has a big house in Spain, so we could stay with him and do flight only. But now I am worried... cos I don't want to be a third wheel, and I don't want them to try to fix me up with anybody either.. I have a boyfriend but we have not been seeing each other all that long but I think the world of him.
Am I right to be cautious on this one? What should I ask my friend in order to decide whether to go ahead with this holiday or not?
Moonstar14
56-60, F
13 replies 105 views Jun 18, 2016
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Moonstar14 · 56-60, F
The other idea is that I can sound her out about asking another female friend to come along, so if they want to be alone we can do our own thing. The more I think about this, the less sure I am about the idea.
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GlassDog · 46-50, M
I'd be very cautious for exactly the reasons you stated. What I'd probably do instead would be to go somewhere else for a week, enjoy your holiday together, than both travel to her friend's place so you can meet him and make sure he's okay, then ler her stay there and you either come home or have a week somewhere else, exploring on your own.
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SW-User
A orgy sounds like fun
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CheshireCatalyst · 36-40, M
Moonstar14 how do you feel about exploring a new place on your own? If you like the sound of spending the days looking round villages or sitting on the beach or reading on a balcony then spending the evenings eating and drinking wine with your friend and her hombre then you should go. But if you wouldn't feel comfortable on holiday alone you shouldn't risk it. That could kill a friendship without either of you really doing anything wrong.
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Moonstar14 · 56-60, F
Haha... flip a coin sounds like a good option.
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Moonstar14 · 56-60, F
I will talk to her first... seeing her later. Have to diplomatically say..."hey what am I gonna be doing when all this flirting and schmoozing is going on?" I best get on Amazon and check out the top reads this year I think. lol
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Moonstar14 · 56-60, F
I would be find exploring on my own in the day. just a bit risky if I leave your stuff (say to have a swim in the sea) and my friend is not there.
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Calmsoul · 31-35, M
cause a lot of thinking results in inaction ... just have faith in your friend ..
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Calmsoul · 31-35, M
you should .. you will definitely enjoy it ..
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Calmsoul · 31-35, M
hehehe don't think so much ...
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Moonstar14 · 56-60, F
Why not??
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Justenjoyit · 61-69, M
Well if they hit it off, that leaves you in a difficult position,if not she will be glad you are there. Flip a coin😊
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Justenjoyit · 61-69, M
And what was the out come😊
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