Poll - Total Votes: 19 See Poll Options
TheListener · 26-30, M
I don't deliberately try to hurt people's feelings but I don't care if I do.
ash0496 · 26-30, F
I think it's almost always necessary to care. Doesn't mean they get their way. But there's nothing wrong with at least considering other people's feelings first.

SW-User
I usually do, because I like to treat people the way I like to be treated.
CallmeHopelessNotRomantic · 46-50, F
If they're important to me, their feelings always come first.
I try to but my mouth reacts before my brain has a chance to stop it sometimes. I try though
TwiddlerofThumbs · F
To a fault. I overthink things. I'm far too cautious with people who trample through life. I make a lot of mistakes by trying to be over thoughtful in instances where it would seem I should not be.
It's a lot of work.
And actually, it is really self centered. So I need to stop it. But its hard.
It's a lot of work.
And actually, it is really self centered. So I need to stop it. But its hard.

SW-User
I try
JustEd · 41-45, M
Most of the time I consider others feelings. I don't like controversy
YoMomma ·
Not always.. Depends on how much I care or don't care about them basicky
Justpeaceandlove · 61-69, F
Yes I always care and try to understand but we all have a human side and can only take so much of certain things people try to persuade me with. When I say too much of anything some people in my life will tell me but most will just get angry and go off on a tangent. Then I have to be adult enough to respond with respect. If that doesn't work go to plan B... Lol
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
I used to be very considerate and found that if I wasn't straight-forward about how I felt that people would take advantage of that. It's better to be honest without being brutal.
smiler2012 · 61-69
misstutu7 yes I tend to think of others feelings I do not like upsetting people unless they have rubbed me up the wrong way if I did upset someone by accident and I was in the wrong I would certainly apologise to that person
Myzery · 41-45, F
I almost always [i]consider[i] their feelings.
But it doesn't mean that I will not act in my own best interest.
But it doesn't mean that I will not act in my own best interest.
Diyanne · F
Yes, becoz consider ourselves in their shoes. We need to always care. Unless its proven that they are bad people when they keep hurting us and they know they are hurting us.

SW-User
Always. All i can do is bring a little happiness into this world.
Doomsdaysmores · 41-45, M
To consider is not always to prioritize.
Doomsdaysmores · 41-45, M
I always consider a person's feelings either way.
Bluesky52 · 61-69, M
I try to be considerate,i miss it once in awhile,
xTutu7x · F
Very true Diyanne

SW-User
Yes, that's what I like about myself
Myzery · 41-45, F
Well, that is what they call me: Myzery the Wyze.
xTutu7x · F
Same here Island.
xTutu7x · F
That's wise Myzery
WiltingRose · 26-30, F
Sometimes
xTutu7x · F
I like that. 😄
xTutu7x · F
It's good to be assertive like that Patti.
That's good to hear smiler.
That's good to hear smiler.
xTutu7x · F
Very true justpeace
xTutu7x · F
I agree Ash.
jaymic64 · M
I have a difficult time purposely hurting anyone's feelings.

SW-User
Yes mostly except for when I suffer from bouts of "NOT CARING OR NOT GIVING A FLYING FUCK"
Fernie · F
unless they are an obvious jerk.....then MY feelings come first