Mistik · 36-40, M
Marriage is an institution that fails as much as it succeeds
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Hmm..,yeha that's really very bad.,
If someone got married after so mauch2 attempt then there is no need to flirt with other people..
Same condition can be applied on lovers also..
I'm agree with you on most of the points..
Doing all this is clearly showing that they don't have love and affection and respect..then why they are running each other's life. .,its very strange.
Do you have answer for this ???
If someone got married after so mauch2 attempt then there is no need to flirt with other people..
Same condition can be applied on lovers also..
I'm agree with you on most of the points..
Doing all this is clearly showing that they don't have love and affection and respect..then why they are running each other's life. .,its very strange.
Do you have answer for this ???
Crazynachocheeseloveryo · 26-30, F
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@Shae95: yes...
Right question...👍
I'm fed up with such kind of people .....
Right question...👍
I'm fed up with such kind of people .....
Unsatisfiedstace · 51-55, F
I tend to agree. That's why I'm 47 and have never married.
I don't judge....people get married when they are young...often those 2 people change and go different directions but have kids they stay together for or cannot afford to live separately...so they stay....and change....and lose interest....and get tempted.
I don't judge....people get married when they are young...often those 2 people change and go different directions but have kids they stay together for or cannot afford to live separately...so they stay....and change....and lose interest....and get tempted.
Crazynachocheeseloveryo · 26-30, F
Unsatisfiedstace · 51-55, F
@Shae95:
it sounds easy doesn't it.
In today's world of - I want it now - people don't have the patience or character to wait.
I also think that people don't think enough before the get married. They only see the now and not 50 years into the future.
I would love to have this same conversation with you when you are my age and hear what you have to say.
It is great that you feel so strongly about this. Make sure the partner you find feels the same about it.
it sounds easy doesn't it.
In today's world of - I want it now - people don't have the patience or character to wait.
I also think that people don't think enough before the get married. They only see the now and not 50 years into the future.
I would love to have this same conversation with you when you are my age and hear what you have to say.
It is great that you feel so strongly about this. Make sure the partner you find feels the same about it.
yeronlyman · 51-55, M
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yeronlyman · 51-55, M
@GundamWing: I never said this behaviour is necessary for biology
These instincts are part of evolutionary biology. With out them its unlikely we would be here...
Like it or not. It's not an excuse it's an explanation of the behaviour...
Not sure why it's so hard to understand that?
These instincts are part of evolutionary biology. With out them its unlikely we would be here...
Like it or not. It's not an excuse it's an explanation of the behaviour...
Not sure why it's so hard to understand that?
leavingthissiteforgood10 · 31-35, F
Getting a bit testy are we?
You believe infidelity is the reason for "evolutionary biology". Quite a statement. I hope you are proud? While this may be true, it is a general and vague statement. There are plenty of other ways for humans to procreate that would be more ethical.
I don't think you understand the question. She isn't asking why cheating would be necessary or of it's relevance. She is describing the sacrament of marriage and her views of affairs.
It's too general of a response to even argue with! Marriage or committed relationships and family trees create evolution.
You believe infidelity is the reason for "evolutionary biology". Quite a statement. I hope you are proud? While this may be true, it is a general and vague statement. There are plenty of other ways for humans to procreate that would be more ethical.
I don't think you understand the question. She isn't asking why cheating would be necessary or of it's relevance. She is describing the sacrament of marriage and her views of affairs.
It's too general of a response to even argue with! Marriage or committed relationships and family trees create evolution.
yeronlyman · 51-55, M
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They love their significant other,but sometimes people don't get certain needs from within the marriage. Even if they try so hard. So they find in someone else by mistake, though it sometimes just happens, and I don't mean it's all about the sex. It depends on the situation and the person every person is different. Also it could be they have kids, and they stay in a unhappy marriage for the sake of the kids, but on the other hand, they have something on the side. So they can have the strength to deal with the situation at home.. It can be all kinds of reasons.
It all starts after the honeymoon is over, and then the reality kicks in. However, that's why they say make sure that person you marry is definitely the right one. Some marriages are very happy with both faithful to their relationship. Like I said in depends on the individuals..
It all starts after the honeymoon is over, and then the reality kicks in. However, that's why they say make sure that person you marry is definitely the right one. Some marriages are very happy with both faithful to their relationship. Like I said in depends on the individuals..
yeronlyman · 51-55, M
Mature and reasoned view
Humans are not computers
But complex physical psychological beings and understanding that is a good place to start
The chemistry of new love lasts only so long. Beyond that a deeper connection may help to sustain the bond
Scientists are studying this at the moment and I think we will have better understanding in the new future...
Humans are not computers
But complex physical psychological beings and understanding that is a good place to start
The chemistry of new love lasts only so long. Beyond that a deeper connection may help to sustain the bond
Scientists are studying this at the moment and I think we will have better understanding in the new future...
leavingthissiteforgood10 · 31-35, F
Crazynachocheeseloveryo · 26-30, F
It was a joke. It's what they did in the past and in Game of Thrones.
leavingthissiteforgood10 · 31-35, F
Never watched it. Pardon me.
Benny5678 · 41-45, T
Because they want to have their cake and eat it
Crazynachocheeseloveryo · 26-30, F
Then they're gonna get diabetes from eating 10 cakes every day
Benny5678 · 41-45, T
@Shae95: yeah. I'm with you. I'm faithful if in a relationship. I'm not a cheater
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Longlegs2014 · 61-69, M
Applause, applause. I like the way you think.
However some peple equate having sex with others as no big deal, like scratching your nose.
If that's the case, hopefully they discuss and agree to it before marriage (and skip the forsaking all others' part of the wedding vows). Cheating is wrong.
However some peple equate having sex with others as no big deal, like scratching your nose.
If that's the case, hopefully they discuss and agree to it before marriage (and skip the forsaking all others' part of the wedding vows). Cheating is wrong.