If a woman slapped you across the face, would you slap her back?
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TH3S10GUY1 · M
Ynotisay · M
@EpicFail - Read my initial comments about 30% of all DV cases being female against male.
And even thought the QUESTION was about a woman hitting a man first, you read it as violence against women.
So in your world, women should be free to tee off on men whenever they want and men should just take it, is that right?
Yours is EXACTLY the perspective that is perpetuated in the U.S. Go to any domestic violence site and what you see are women decrying male violence. But you will NOT see the other side of the coin.
You could have said, "All physical violence against another is wrong." But you didn't. I'll assume there's a reason for that. Maybe you're one of those women who thinks hitting a man is ok. Well, you'll run in to a guy at some point who doesn't feel the same. But remember, if YOU start it then all bets are off. YOU will be the one who is charged and might get your clock cleaned in the process. So take your chances.
And even thought the QUESTION was about a woman hitting a man first, you read it as violence against women.
So in your world, women should be free to tee off on men whenever they want and men should just take it, is that right?
Yours is EXACTLY the perspective that is perpetuated in the U.S. Go to any domestic violence site and what you see are women decrying male violence. But you will NOT see the other side of the coin.
You could have said, "All physical violence against another is wrong." But you didn't. I'll assume there's a reason for that. Maybe you're one of those women who thinks hitting a man is ok. Well, you'll run in to a guy at some point who doesn't feel the same. But remember, if YOU start it then all bets are off. YOU will be the one who is charged and might get your clock cleaned in the process. So take your chances.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
If I'm that angry or in fear of physical harm, and it's come to that...it won't be a slap. It will be game on. Luckily, it's never come to that except in practice, competitve, sparing. But any woman who decides to be big and bad without actual threatening provocation, deserves whatever she gets.
AthrillatheHunt · 51-55, M
You mean like a woman with a penis or a woman woman ?
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HeyLookItsGemma · 31-35, F
Nobody should lay hands on anybody regardless of gender. Anyone who plays the physical violence card should expect to be met with the same and think themselves lucky if they get away with it. I see women bragging about beating their significant others all the time and it makes me sick that they assume they can hide behind outdated gender norms while playing the equality card at the same time.
My parents taught me that If a woman wants to be treated like a lady she conducts herself like a lady. If a woman goes round hitting people she is conducting herself like a thug and deserves all the trappings that go with the life of a thug including the physical retaliation.
My parents taught me that If a woman wants to be treated like a lady she conducts herself like a lady. If a woman goes round hitting people she is conducting herself like a thug and deserves all the trappings that go with the life of a thug including the physical retaliation.
CallmeHopelessNotRomantic · 46-50, F
CallmeHopelessNotRomantic · 46-50, F
HeyLookItsGemma · 31-35, F
Ynotisay · M
That's a good question, especially when considering that roughly 30% of all domestic violence cases are women against men. Probably higher as men are reticent to report. Wouldn't know that from the way the topic is played out in the media though, huh?
I had a woman slap me once. I picked her up, put her against a wall, said that was the first and last time and told her to leave. Her eyes got very big around. And that was that.
I had a woman slap me once. I picked her up, put her against a wall, said that was the first and last time and told her to leave. Her eyes got very big around. And that was that.
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Lynda70 · F
@th3r0n Your closet misogyny is becoming more apparent with everything you write.
[quote]not because a woman of the same strength is weaker but because it is morally wrong to harm a woman[/quote]
So all that crap about women being weaker was just a pathetic excuse. As I said, sexism pure and simple.
[quote]not because a woman of the same strength is weaker but because it is morally wrong to harm a woman[/quote]
So all that crap about women being weaker was just a pathetic excuse. As I said, sexism pure and simple.
th3r0n · 41-45, M
@Lynda70 women are generally weaker, that is clearly true and can be demonstrated with statistics and many other ways
It is also true that it is wrong for men to harm women when their life isn’t in danger
Let’s hear how and why you have an issue with a man that doesn’t wish to harm women and feels it is morally wrong
Clearly something is wrong with you, it is apparent that only evil men are ok with beating on women
It is also true that it is wrong for men to harm women when their life isn’t in danger
Let’s hear how and why you have an issue with a man that doesn’t wish to harm women and feels it is morally wrong
Clearly something is wrong with you, it is apparent that only evil men are ok with beating on women
Lynda70 · F
@th3r0n [quote]t is also true that it is wrong for men to harm women when their life isn’t in danger[/quote]
I would agree with that but, unlike you and @dunpender I also believe it's morally wrong for men to harm men; women to harm women; and women to harm men other than when necessary to defend themselves. When that situation does arise, the sex of the parties [i]per se[/i] is totally irrelevant.
[quote]Let’s hear how and why you have an issue with a man that doesn’t wish to harm women and feels it is morally wrong [/quote]
Strawman! I never suggested rthat at all. I take issue with people like you who think it's OK to harm men other than when their lives are in danger. You make that clear by specifying "women" rather than saying it's morally wrong for anyone to harm another person (of either sex) when their life isn’t in danger. Clearly something is seriously wrong with you. I feel sorry for any woman who encounters you IRL. Hopefully, one day, some woman will knock a bit of sense into you but I won't hold my breath.
I see you're a christian, "a warrior for god".. That explains a lot!
I would agree with that but, unlike you and @dunpender I also believe it's morally wrong for men to harm men; women to harm women; and women to harm men other than when necessary to defend themselves. When that situation does arise, the sex of the parties [i]per se[/i] is totally irrelevant.
[quote]Let’s hear how and why you have an issue with a man that doesn’t wish to harm women and feels it is morally wrong [/quote]
Strawman! I never suggested rthat at all. I take issue with people like you who think it's OK to harm men other than when their lives are in danger. You make that clear by specifying "women" rather than saying it's morally wrong for anyone to harm another person (of either sex) when their life isn’t in danger. Clearly something is seriously wrong with you. I feel sorry for any woman who encounters you IRL. Hopefully, one day, some woman will knock a bit of sense into you but I won't hold my breath.
I see you're a christian, "a warrior for god".. That explains a lot!
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Sharon · F
Exactly as it should be. No woman should hit a man and expect him to just take it.
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th3r0n · 41-45, M
@Lynda70 you ignored half of what I said, were you busy when you responded?
First off I said I wouldn't injure you, second defending myself without doing damage is not at all against my beliefs, third you seem to think your attempt to injure me would last long enough to constitute a fight (only if you're good enough to just walk up and get into a fight with SOP trained soldiers or top level competitive martial artists will that become anything but funny), fourth and last, I'm very hard to hurt, you could punch me in the stomach for an hour and break your hand far before you would hurt me, I've also let a friend who was an ex marine push on pressure points as hard as he can, I'm able to manipulate my muscle precisely to make armor from lots of practice.
Also, I've fallen back onto heavy metal directly with all my weight and another on top of me all landing on my head and felt it ring all the way through, forced myself to remain conscious and the match continued. Never been knocked out either.
You think I'm telling you I can beat you up, you're wrong, I'm telling you that you could try whatever you want and it would be like a kitten attacking a lion and all you would get out of it is embarrassment and a sore bottom.
First off I said I wouldn't injure you, second defending myself without doing damage is not at all against my beliefs, third you seem to think your attempt to injure me would last long enough to constitute a fight (only if you're good enough to just walk up and get into a fight with SOP trained soldiers or top level competitive martial artists will that become anything but funny), fourth and last, I'm very hard to hurt, you could punch me in the stomach for an hour and break your hand far before you would hurt me, I've also let a friend who was an ex marine push on pressure points as hard as he can, I'm able to manipulate my muscle precisely to make armor from lots of practice.
Also, I've fallen back onto heavy metal directly with all my weight and another on top of me all landing on my head and felt it ring all the way through, forced myself to remain conscious and the match continued. Never been knocked out either.
You think I'm telling you I can beat you up, you're wrong, I'm telling you that you could try whatever you want and it would be like a kitten attacking a lion and all you would get out of it is embarrassment and a sore bottom.
CathrynDsw · 31-35, F
buddyhilly · 56-60, M
cdlookinforsoulmate · 31-35, M
Lol high five @francis
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Fangirlsarah1996 · 26-30, F
Mondayschild · F
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Youza75 · 46-50, M
No, a real Gentleman never hit a woman
SW-User
Well... maybe if she slapped me with a knife.
buddyhilly · 56-60, M
if a man even looks lke he might hit me, ill deck him
SW-User
Yes then break her knee caps😱
Coraline · F
of course i would
Ynotisay · M
@EpicFail - So what?
FeetAreFantastic · 41-45, M