I Have a Question

Okay. Well, our conversations are actually in between funny and serious and long and short. We're working on interacting more better through speaking because we are shy towards each other but through text we are outgoing.

as a fellow fat girl I respond pretty well to cutie or sweetie. If you really want to make it about size I guess curvy is neutral enough

It depends on how you two interact.
For example are your conversations long and serious, or brief and funny?

well I agree with you, MFP, but it seems like an actual honest question. I don't mind curvy at all, but of course I prefer sexy

that's when the compulsive lying comes in handy... I don't actually want you to tell me my ass does look big in these jeans

As you know her size is irrelevant.
She's your partner - that's the best way to describe her

Why not call him your 'Hunk of love"?