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What kind of parent were you when your kids were in primary school?

Were you the one who showed up to every sports day and meet-and-greet? Did you always volunteer at fetes, bake for the school and dress your kids up so they could win competitions?

I’m just not that kind of parent. I’m not especially creative and I don’t enjoy baking for other parents, teachers and students. I didn’t make my kids’ Book Week costumes. We bought them because it was easier. And I’m not the mum who comes up with elaborate ideas for Crazy Hair Day.

But whenever I could, I showed up. I am a stay-at-home mum so I was there. I wasn’t the loudest parent and I didn’t push them to win. I’m not one of those fancy mums. I just wanted them to know I’m present in their lives, even if I’m quietly in the background.

I do want my girls to feel proud of me and one day be able to say that I tried my best as their mum.

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RebelRaven · 51-55, F
I’m pretty shy (believe it or not) I did go to a few things but not many. 1 sports day and 2 meet and greets. I do about 1/4 of the parent/teacher meetings.
I did chat with a couple other moms and became friends with one of them but fir the most part I keep to myself and I just watch.
I don’t bake either but I would buy either a big box of Tim Bits or a few trays of mini cupcakes if we had to bring something.
GunFinger · F
@RebelRaven i do all of those you mentioned as well. I try to be friendly with eveyone (parents & teachers), but not too involved to the point of being a part of school P&C. I am friends with some parents though. My friend wanted me to be a part, but I didn't want to.