Do you feel you’re obligated to take care of your siblings once you make it? I’m not doing it. I don’t care what they going through. That’s why my mom

doesn’t have me down on her paperwork when she pass.

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Never obligated, but I would to some degree. I thought about it yesterday actually, and I think it can cause issues if you help them too much. They'll start to expect it, become dependent on your help, and not really get any happier at all. It's better to just be of support when truly needed.