Do you feel you’re obligated to take care of your siblings once you make it? I’m not doing it. I don’t care what they going through. That’s why my mom

Do you mean financially? I would financially help 2 of my siblings. The same two I give emotional support to. The other 3 I would help if they were hurt/hungry, but not give too much of myself.
It’s less about them not being deserving, and more about protecting myself.