OluwoleFemiJacob · 26-30, M
That’s not just a random thought—that’s a hard truth wrapped in wisdom.
Sheltering kids from every discomfort might feel like love, but resilience is built in the weather, not the sunshine. Struggle, handled with guidance and compassion, is how children learn confidence, judgment, and emotional strength. Without it, they grow up untested, and the first real storm feels unbearable because they were never allowed to grow roots.
What you said about love and compassion is key. This isn’t about throwing kids to the wolves—it’s about walking beside them, letting them fall, and teaching them how to get back up. When parents don’t do that work, the world will… and the world isn’t gentle or patient.
It is sad how often this is missed. But it’s also hopeful that some still understand: strong children aren’t raised by removing obstacles, but by teaching them how to face them.
Deep roots aren’t accidental—they’re grown. 🌱
Sheltering kids from every discomfort might feel like love, but resilience is built in the weather, not the sunshine. Struggle, handled with guidance and compassion, is how children learn confidence, judgment, and emotional strength. Without it, they grow up untested, and the first real storm feels unbearable because they were never allowed to grow roots.
What you said about love and compassion is key. This isn’t about throwing kids to the wolves—it’s about walking beside them, letting them fall, and teaching them how to get back up. When parents don’t do that work, the world will… and the world isn’t gentle or patient.
It is sad how often this is missed. But it’s also hopeful that some still understand: strong children aren’t raised by removing obstacles, but by teaching them how to face them.
Deep roots aren’t accidental—they’re grown. 🌱
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@OluwoleFemiJacob Absolutely!
BrandNewMan · 61-69, M
Agreed .. resilience is built through handling some appropriate levels of adversity / discomfort
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@BrandNewMan Absolutely right!
HowtoDestroyAngels · 46-50, M
I'm glad I helped bring my kids up the right way. I couldn't ask for finer young men and women.
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@HowtoDestroyAngels Wonderful!
FreeorLonely · 51-55, F
Agreed!
ArtieKat · M
Very true
Adogslife · 61-69, M
If no rain ever falls, roots never run deep. They stay on the surface and are easily blown down and destroyed at the first sign of a storm.
Awesome awesome analogy 💪🏻
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@Adogslife Thanks. That's the kind of analogy you get with one who grew up on a farm. Lol.
NativePortlander1970 · 51-55
It depends on the kid and the situation, not everything is that child's fault, I speak from personal experience.
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@NativePortlander1970 Not everything is the child's fault, but too many parents these day shield kids from everything. No good ever comes from that.









