It's really not fair for people to assume of you and punish you without speaking to you.

I get everyone has their boundaries and bubbles and opinions, but would asking questions and understanding other people really be the worst thing? Or difficult?

I just see so much potential and love wasted on everyone being so against the discomfort of each other.

Isn't anything worth it?

Or is it all supposed to be easy?

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ScreamingFox · 41-45, F

@BobbyMoeven sorry

BobbyMoeven · 100+, M

@ScreamingFox

This is not you...

Sorry you saw it that way ..

Blondily · F

I agree
If someone isnt as friendly as they used to be it would be nice if they would at least talk to you about it instead of acting like nothing is wrong instead of ignoring you.

ScreamingFox · 41-45, F

@Blondily who really knows what someone is going through. If someone takes the time to explain their hardship why still act like it's personally hurting you? Even if you don't want to get involved you can still be decent. It's no reason to trash them.

I'm not saying everyone has to get along, but people aren't garbage because we're different.

I am seeing this shift as we assert boundaries that is just making us butthurt whimps.

Blondily · F

@ScreamingFox I agree. Its better to be honest then them get passive aggressive. I see that alot.

Degbeme · 70-79, M

I wish I had a an answer for you.

Livingwell · 61-69, M

No one plays the long game. A few questions could lead to smiles and new opportunity. Even friendship. And all it takes is an open mind and heart. 🤗

ScreamingFox · 41-45, F

@Livingwell and sometimes you put in that effort and they still reject you. Lives are busy, people are different, but there's no reason to assume the worst of each other when basic kindness could make such a difference.

Livingwell · 61-69, M

@ScreamingFox Well said my friend. 🤗

Magenta · F

It should be worth it, but most just want comfort, the easy road.

ScreamingFox · 41-45, F

@Magenta people just give up without really trying. I guess there's plenty of people who will give them what they want faster and easier... Why bother with someone who doesn't supply them.

Magenta · F

@ScreamingFox Right?! Sometimes they are just using others to fill their voids, so it's easy peasy for them .

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