I Have a Question

If you do feel comfortable with one friend you have known nearly all your life and family but can't seem to relax around other people as much .or feel strong case of aniexty around at times and just don't feel good enough or just don't know how to be is that the same as being a fake person like you are just putting a front on or is it different .whats your view.just a question.

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Justbychance · M

It basically means that you are shy or, possibly, inhibited. There are those around you, right now, who put on a metaphorical mask which would have you believe they are the life and soul of the party whilst being far from it. Not everyone is who they appear to be and there are definitely some 'fake' people to be found. Don't forget that the word [i]fake[/i] (as in your own definition of the word) is a person who is [i]not[/i] as they appear to be or would have us believe they are. Wouldn't it be right to say the world is full of fakes?

You are good enough. Maybe instead you should work at who you are rather than try to be someone different. Be yourself, relax and try not to work hard at being someone that you are not.

Zeusdelight · 61-69, M

Some people fit into my life like a glove. Most do not, I try t fit them in, but they are just not comfortable. However, I try to be myself even though they don't fit nicely. I may have to talk about things I don't like or do activities I don't enjoy as much, that's why I don't see them as much.

StarLily · 51-55, F

Perhaps it's shyness? Or a lack of confidence?

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