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What’s your worst trait?

I found myself thinking about this tonight. What is the worst thing about being you? It can be a physical trait, or even emotional one like a character flaw. Whatever comes to your mind.

I think for me it’s the fact that I don’t have a positive presence or connection to anyone’s life who ever got to know me. I have a lot of shallow relationships that are great, but I realized that whenever I got closer to someone and they saw the deeper sides of me, that only resulted in their pity or hatred for me. Understanding people is normally supposed to do the opposite and create love, but not in my case. There’s no one I’ve ever met who got to see me, the rest of me, and decided I was worthwhile. My interactions are always genuine, but the full picture is what people don’t like. I guess I’m much more attractive as a puzzle piece rather than the completed set.
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MellyMel22 · F
We’ve had our disagreements here and there, but I always liked our chats and you of course. You’re special and if they can’t see it, screw them. It means they’re not worth it.
Reject · 31-35, M
@MellyMel22 Thanks Mel! I guess I need to work on being worth it to others.
MellyMel22 · F
@Reject There’s a lot of selfish people out there, but there are also good ones. You shouldn’t need to change for anyone.
Reject · 31-35, M
@MellyMel22 While I think there are people out there who would appreciate me as I am, I also think my odds of finding them are really low. I’d have a better chance if I did change some things.