I am confused by people who close their posts and do not allow any comments.
No insult intended. Genuinely curious.
Anyone else?
Anyone else?
56-60, F
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Adogslife · 61-69, M
I’m worse. I don’t understand why sone people even post. They put a thought out there and ask for an opinion or validation when in actuality they just want a consenting opinion.
If you ask for an opinion, don’t you inherently know that some people are going to differ? Why not tell me upfront? Why waste my time? Presumably others of us may have actually had the same experience and come out the other side.
If an OP doesn’t want responses, the post should auto delete. Otherwise you’re essentially forcing everyone to read your post for no reason as there’s nothing there that’s actionable.
If you ask for an opinion, don’t you inherently know that some people are going to differ? Why not tell me upfront? Why waste my time? Presumably others of us may have actually had the same experience and come out the other side.
If an OP doesn’t want responses, the post should auto delete. Otherwise you’re essentially forcing everyone to read your post for no reason as there’s nothing there that’s actionable.
Adogslife · 61-69, M
@Tumbleweed Right? Furthermore, why even create a post, as an OP, that you know is going to elicit responses that are going to trigger you so badly that you need to block people?
Isn’t that counterintuitive? It’s certainly not cathartic. 🤔
Isn’t that counterintuitive? It’s certainly not cathartic. 🤔