I Have a Question

Do you regret getting married???

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mlihere · 51-55, M

Yes. I should have found myself first and became a whole person.

tacomasr5 · 51-55, M

are you saying your the issue?

SW-User

Me as well. Got married way too young before I'd established myself

mlihere · 51-55, M

Yes I am the issue. I am not complete so I am with the wrong person or she is with me that is wrong.

mlihere · 51-55, M

I conformed to my wife instead of us joining forces as full individuals.

SW-User

@mlihere: same. My husband was older. It was never a relationship of two human equals

mlihere · 51-55, M

@Faerylight: What do you plan to do about it?

SW-User

@mlihere: I left.

Building 'me' is a continual work in progress :-)

mlihere · 51-55, M

@Faerylight: Good for you. Was it hard to leave? Did he give you a hard time about it?

SW-User

@mlihere: he is still very angry and has maintained control of a few things. Life is a lot happier though, standing in the sunshine -not somebody's shadow

mlihere · 51-55, M

@Faerylight: Did you move out right away? Did he keep calling you?