If you or your partner (hypothetical partner) need space at times...

Would it be better to ignore the person/be ignored?

Or let the other know you/they are feeling quiet and need some space?

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Miram · 31-35, F

I tell them I need space.

And then blame them for using MY TIME AWAY to do their own thing, instead of still chasing and trying to convince me I don't need space.

And then I ask for more space to sort my feelz about not getting any attention , while I spy on what they are doing. And then barge into the room and catch them watching a movie without me and blame them for having fun while I am away.

I learnt all of this from Youtube.