What do you think?

It's a long and complicated story,but all you need to know that me and this guy had crazy chemistry,we have a history.
First i added him on fb in 2024 october,he accepted my request...we exchanged messages.approx. 6 months later his marriage ended.
I am pretty sure he muted me lol
Unfollowed him for a hot sec,but i wanted to ask him something important.
And this forced me to send a request again...he accepted it,again.
I was wondering why he is okay with being friends on fb but refuse to talk...could it be because he is not ready to open up?
Btw we've mutual co-workers still waiting for him to accept their request,some for years

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Elessar · 26-30, M

I'd say: run, and don't look back

Maybe I'm a tad too evasive with this sort of stuff. But I sense a lot of potential for drama from this description

OlderSometimesWiser · F

I think I’d delete him from my life. Way too old to be playing these silly guessing games. If he really wanted a relationship, he’d put forth the effort to make it happen.

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OlderSometimesWiser · F

@Girlbehindthecurtain Lol….. I’m guessing you wouldn’t care so much if you didn’t care about him. After all, you were the one who said you had crazy chemistry and a history.

Again though, these kinds of guessing games are really a waste of time that could be better spent pursuing healthy relationships, platonic and non-platonic. This guy’s just not a good bet.

Girlbehindthecurtain · 31-35, F

@OlderSometimesWiser ofc i do,but that doesn't mean i'd date him.due to our history
I just found this odd,seems like he wants to keep me close but not ready to talk...about anything

OlderSometimesWiser · F

@Girlbehindthecurtain Seriously, I really hope you can just let this (and him) go. Who the heck knows what’s in his mind? Trying to figure it out is just an exercise in futility. Seems like women have been doing this exercise since the beginning of time when their attention would be so much better spent elsewhere.

Anyway, think I’ve said just about all there is to say on the matter and I certainly do wish you the best.