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Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
I think people get judgmental and judging mixed up.
You have to judge some things,you could call it summing up the situation.
It's impossible not to judge as you make decisions everyday in what you'll tolerate and whom you'll interact with.
Setting up boundaries requires some judgment.
I judge some behaviors to be wrong because they are injurious to others.
An extreme example would be muder, I would judge the person to be an extremely dangerous individual, that's common sense.
I think of being judgmental as not knowing all the facts and still making assumptions, giving motivations that are not there, or being harsh about a person's personal appearance or quirks that don't harm anyone personally.
You have to judge some things,you could call it summing up the situation.
It's impossible not to judge as you make decisions everyday in what you'll tolerate and whom you'll interact with.
Setting up boundaries requires some judgment.
I judge some behaviors to be wrong because they are injurious to others.
An extreme example would be muder, I would judge the person to be an extremely dangerous individual, that's common sense.
I think of being judgmental as not knowing all the facts and still making assumptions, giving motivations that are not there, or being harsh about a person's personal appearance or quirks that don't harm anyone personally.