Is it me or are so many people here fake?

Maybe its just me.
Seems several are fake and when you try to get to know them better they poof and disapear.
Several ive wanted to know better.
Several just seems like only here for their attention etc.
Maybe this isnt the right place for me. I know the internet is full of fakes etc but dang i just want to meet real people and have conversations. Several are guys pretending to be women. Why do that?
Sorry vent over