I Have a Question

@sweetiepiehuggs Ok :) From my questiin there's no way of telling what kind of personality he has or what type of person in terms of character, he is.When I mean a guy who would support you the idea is, you are working and he, working,would still support you. For the first guy, the idea is, he would provide all your needs of which you don't worry about the idea of working. So for a second time, which would it be?

I still say the first. Okay its nice not to have to worry about working. And if its just him working i can still support him by doing the house work and cooking for him. Taking care of the kids if we have any. But if there ever comes a time he can't support us like he used to then it would only be right of me to work as well and lighten His load. Its marriage right. We support each other.

@sweetiepiehuggs:Ok :) But there's just one question though. Would you prefer to let him provide everything for you without you working and if it occurs that he isn't able to work again, you would have to start working? Or Would you have a job already and support him, as he also supports you?

I guess that would be a conversation to have. I love being a home maker. I love having a nice hot meal on the table when my husband comes home. That makes me happy. That's how I wish to support him. But if the time comes where he needs me to work I will. We can't let the ship sink.

@sweetiepiehuggs: Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this question. I appreciate :)

NP. Why are you curious what we would pick?

@sweetiepiehuggs: Lol. Well,i wanted to hear the answers you all would give and the various reasons why you would pick that particular person In terms of 'support' workwise as the concept of the question. Though the subject of this question is not the main reason for marriage to take place. There must be love and understanding between a man and his wife. That's the major attribute that would bring them together to be husband and wife.