Do you consider “looking” to be cheating?
If not then why? If so then why? I wanna hear your reasoning
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Viper · M
No, I don't consider it cheating as I don't believe one can control looking, if looking is all it is.
I believe people can control actions, like sexual touch... but looking, breathing, dreaming, as in my opinion, those areas are largely subconscious.
Where I feel like cheating is a conscious decision...
That being said, just because it's not cheating, doesn't mean it's non-offensive... as one can be looking and their significant others there and gets offended... and the significant other could choose to break up with them over that offense... but I don't consider that only cheating...
They looked... so what? Does that means if they listen, that's also cheating?
People by automatic nature look, listen, talk and dream... even little kids whom don't know what sex is yet.
Cheating to me, is a choice where you did something more than automatic nature of what a kid with no real knowledge of sex might do.
I believe people can control actions, like sexual touch... but looking, breathing, dreaming, as in my opinion, those areas are largely subconscious.
Where I feel like cheating is a conscious decision...
That being said, just because it's not cheating, doesn't mean it's non-offensive... as one can be looking and their significant others there and gets offended... and the significant other could choose to break up with them over that offense... but I don't consider that only cheating...
They looked... so what? Does that means if they listen, that's also cheating?
People by automatic nature look, listen, talk and dream... even little kids whom don't know what sex is yet.
Cheating to me, is a choice where you did something more than automatic nature of what a kid with no real knowledge of sex might do.