Do you consider “looking” to be cheating?

@helenS I would find such a relationship suffocating .

@JimboSaturn Love is the child of freedom. I wouldn't mind if my guy smiled at pretty girls, it just means he's a healthy man.

@helenS Same. I find that kind of mind control a little unhealthy. A relationship isn't just that "you are the one I'm most attracted to", it's way more than that.

@helenS In fact I knew my wife had the hots for this veterinarian specialist. I used to laugh because she used to straighten her hair and do herself up more when we went to his clinic lol

@JimboSaturn Most likely it made your wife even more interesting for you!

@helenS I actually thought it was kind of cute. We love each other and have a great life, so what if she kinda liked the guy.

@JimboSaturn Might even trigger nice fantasies 😏

@helenS I was much more jealous when I was younger like in my 20's maybe as I got older, I have become more secure?

@JimboSaturn ... and more mature. That's why older men are so attractive!

@JimboSaturn can a young 23 year old insecure woman get some advice as how to not feel threatened? He says he doesn’t like but you never know. I’m just mostly insecure but I wanna over come that

@Sb356 Well is he looking online? Is he actively looking for other women? If not, its just normal to find other women attractive. Is his focus on you? I really cannot provide you with any guidance, I don't think I'm qualified.

@JimboSaturn I mean yeah his focus is mainly on me like he seems to want to invest the time even to support me on things like my small business. he always goes that extra length to support me in those ways….yeah he will reassure me as well but idk we were out getting coffee and there was a couple in front of us….I started laughing at him and he was like “why are you laughing at me?” And I said “because you’re looking” and he said “no I’m not. But even if I did she doesn’t have an ass” but her not having an ass wasn’t the point like why are u looking……

@Sb356 OH that is nothing. He obviously is committed to you. The fact that he notices another woman's ass is normal. Our brains are created to think that way lol

@JimboSaturn I hope so. These things make me anxious

@Sb356 I don't think it should personally. He sounds like an ok guy.

@JimboSaturn thank you🙏🏽