Do you consider “looking” to be cheating?
If not then why? If so then why? I wanna hear your reasoning
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DrWatson · 70-79, M
I think each couple needs to come to an understanding of what the boundaries are.
My wife and I are perfectly comfortable with the knowledge that we each can appreciate someone who is good looking.
Other couples would be uncomfortable with that.
Once, I was with two engaged couples, and one woman punched her fiancé in the arm because she noticed him looking at another woman in the room. In contrast, the woman from the other couple said, "I don't care where he gets his appetite, as long as he comes home for supper."
My wife and I are perfectly comfortable with the knowledge that we each can appreciate someone who is good looking.
Other couples would be uncomfortable with that.
Once, I was with two engaged couples, and one woman punched her fiancé in the arm because she noticed him looking at another woman in the room. In contrast, the woman from the other couple said, "I don't care where he gets his appetite, as long as he comes home for supper."
