I know this is an unusual question, but is it ok to recreate my 5yr old's birthday cupcakes?

Just so that us as a family would have a family picture taken with her blowing her candles? Because it was my friend in the picture when she did it and I was the one taking the photo. I think my friend overstepped a bit at that moment.

I don't need violent reactions, please. Just as a mom, I keep thinking about this and I can't get over it.

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Borderline · M

Throughout my life long training and experiences, of pragmatism and logic, I do not see a quandary.

Why can't one celebrate any occasion, on any day of the year, if one, chooses to do so? The date, truly doesn't matter and to me, more the merrier.

There is nothing to ask or explain. Just have another birthday party, with the whole family. It's just as real, as ever, and not staged, at all!

Think about this and plan even more celebrations, for your family. 🙂🌷