@Imsleepy why

She asked me to marry her, I didn’t want to say yes, but I did anyway. We were teenagers when we started dating and had started growing apart pretty drastically. It was probably more of me changing than her, but I eventually couldn’t pretend anymore and told her I wanted a divorce. @Nobody00

@Imsleepy you must be a very kind hearted person, if you say yes to a marriage that you don't want aaaaaaawwww

@SW-User you initiated divorce or he didn't like it

@SW-User wow

@Nobody00 no children, and yes I regret it

@vetguy1991 its not too late to get married

@Nobody00 who knows

@Nobody00 I think you misread what I wrote. The one year dating with 11 years married was the hell. the last nearly 14 years single has been blissful. I edited my wording maybe that will help.

@WillaKissing ok 12 years of bipolar nightmare then 🤕🤕🤕 How did her bipolar behavior actually show? What did she do and why did you taje it for TWELVE years. I mean the same question

@Nobody00 I took it for 12 years for three reasons.
The first: I fell in love with her when we were dating, and once married she told me she was not going to take her medication any longer because she did not need it.
The second: I put her through nursing college and we had two children together, so I hope she would get back on her medication and things would level out. I did not want to lose day to day contact with my kids. They both came to live with me post divorce when they each turned 12 and could decide legally themselves; one son and one daughter, and I will let that stand for itself.
Thirdly and lastly: I took my vowels in the church seriously, and would not divorce. But after her second affair I welcomed the freedom of the mental hell of being with a truly bipolar woman.