I Have a Question

Only one person. I love bethsmiles writing. So I look in each day to see if she has written anything new. You should too. She is really very good.

No, but that's what it's there for so that others can see your activity. I've never got this idea about checking someone's profile being synonymous with stalking. That's crazy. That's what profiles are for...to learn something about people. I welcome anyone to view mine...not that there is much there.

I look at activity if I'm considering adding someone. It gives me an idea of what they're like. I don't stalk anybody though

@Robin10 that's good thinking. You have to know as much as you can about someone.

@Carissimi, good to see you here! And to you and @Robin10 I never considered looking at activity before when I consider adding someone. I have always just looked at profiles. Thanks both of you for that idea. And @Brooksy, that would be just to know something about someone I might want to get to know, not to "spy" on someone I already know.

Sometimes, but with those in my circle I mainly just look to see if they have any new posts.

Uh.. Rarely.. There used to be people i'd do that to tho :D

I'm not following anyone and if I did I certainly wouldn't do THAT!

@Mustang, hi! I think we are friends here. Nice to see you too.

On EP, I always checked recent activity and profiles before I added someone to my circle. It's amazing what recent activity reveals about someone, even more than their profile, which may look innocent.

No.. no one's the great that I need to follow around lol. I have mine hidden so you can't stalk me brooksy.

If someone asks me to add them, and they are set to private, unless it is someone I have spoken to a good deal, I ignore them. Mine isn't private, because I don't do anything here, that I would not want anyone to see. The fact is, all of our activities are public, it's just a pain to look for it, if it is set to private. So, I don't bother. I just ignore them.

nah, i got other ways to waste my time

I do that too, StarLily.

I guess I should've given a little more detail in my question. I feel like I have fans....like loyal ones.....that are watching me closely.

@islandalone--I've always done that. When people have their activity hidden I always wonder why. I might add them anyway though

I kinda just mean the people I've met on here. Relationship might be a stretch. I just can't help but feel like I'm being watched.

If you have trust in a relationship, then you don't need to track what they are doing

It's pretty hard to spy on here...there's not much to go on even if someone wanted to.

Unless, I already know someone, I won't add anyone set to "private."

I will try to remember that Brooksy.

Brooksy, I tried it with your profile. I'm not scrolling down 100 stories to see recent activity. I know yours is set to private, so I was just looking for the button.

I'm surprised it's at the bottom of the stories because who is going to scroll through hundreds of stories...not me.

No, never do that.

Sure thing :)

Nopes.. I think that's boring, and people who do that to me BORE ME..it's better to just carry on without tracking and tracing I think :P

Good morning, Serenitree! I would exist you to have to worry about your activity. You're a good person and have always been polite and respectful.

What I mean is, someone watching the recent activity to see what I'm saying to whom. I may just be paranoid.

That's kinda what I'm getting at. I've been pretty open and honest with folks. The fact that there's potentially "spying" going on is a little concerning.

I don't see any recent activity at the bottom or side of stories. I use my phone, so maybe that's way. I've never seen it.

I have my recent activity set to private.

I'm talking about the activity at the bottom or side of the stories or poll pages

Search "Bogleyn" in the Group page. It's the equivalent to scrolling to the bottom of the stories page

Scroll all the way down in the stories on your phone or it's to the right on the web.

Oh, it's not called recent activity, it's called replies.

Brooksy, I don't understand what you mean by spying.

I'd tell you all you wanna know, Angelita.

@Robin10 - that's a very good idea.

After you've had your Timmies tomorrow. We'll talk.

Damn it, PRK!