I Have a Question

That's what I'm trying to figure out myself. It's been a while and I don't think that he should have any feelings for me left. He has everything that a girl would want so I don't think he had any trouble finding a girlfriend-but knowing him, I don't think he did. The problem is that he's been traveling and I can't seem to find anything about what a past few months has been like for him. I just wouldn't want to cause any pain but I do want to see him just to check if he's doing okay and to support him because he really is a remarkable artist.

Myself, if we break up they don't exist.

I would go, the past is the past, and it's an opportunity to learn something new, meet new people and be the bigger person and showing there are no hard feelings (a highly mature and attractive trait)

@originalme, I think you should go. You broke up with him because you no longer wanted to be a couple. You did not have the kind of break up where you never want to see the person again? This is a chance for the two of you to catch up again, as friends.

If you are not dating someone new, how about going with your mom (seriously)? The point is to make it look like a polite visit, not like you are trying to date him again.

There is no good reason to not see his art, and to not get his status update.

It is your decision. Personally I wouldn't go if it was me. Unless, .. you want him to feel salt in his wound :D xD

Hmm. Maybe he feels his wounds are salty enough, which is why he invited you?! :)

Well, it depends on who broke it off. From your description it seems like you did. I would suggest sending a polite decline via a congratulatory card. The whole idea of exes being friends has been debated a lot, but I think it is all upto the individuals. Take a judgment call based on how you feel about him, and if you don't want to have anything to do with him, please don't attend.

@Belly Yes I did but we didn't fight at all, we are both mature so it was more of a mutual agreement but he did suffer more than I have that's why I wouldn't want to cause more trouble, but on the other hand he's a very intelligent person so he wouldn't be asking me if he wasn't over me and if he didn't want me there. But you might be right, maybe I should just decline it.

If he sent you an invite, he must want you there. And besides, there may be hot guys there.

Do you think he still wants you back? Is he still in love with you and holding on?

Go somewhere with your friends and have fun and avoid the pain and drama. Let the past remain there.

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