I Have a Question

Your brother in law who is over 600 pounds would not be welcome anywhere around me unless he was talking to me about turning around his health problem.

I can get snippy that way.

My loving life includes a lot of tough love too and if it at least helps ME and doesn't hurt THEM I can do it.

There are telephones too.

I have no family so I can't judge. But I can get a good birds-eye view of family problems too...❤️

I’d maybe
Have a talk about his obesity first....

Thats a dillemma

I have a brother-in-law who’s 6’5” tall, and he weighs less than 300 lb.
None of my other brothers-in-law are even close to that.
Sound like he has a lot worse problems than sitting on your couch.

Sometimes there isn't a nice way of telling someone your affaid they will break your couch, they will get mad any ways but if they think about it should understand.

Wow, 600 lbs?? Does he fit in the door?