I Have a Question

Please give me ur opinions....... So my boyfriend has a best friend who takes advantage of him but can't see it. So a few months ago my boyfriend moved in with me. We came to an agreement that his friend can come over any night during the week for a few hours and he could spend one night and one day on the weekend with us. We have gotten into spats about him thinking I wasn't being fair. I should let his friend come and go as he pleases. U should know my boyfriend is/was only 22. Am I in the wrong?

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HootyTheNightOwl

Restricting his access to his friend could bite you in the butt if he ultimately chooses him over you.

I speak from experience when I say that fighting over friends can be exhausting for both of you over time and could potentially break you up in the longer term.

melissa001 · 51-55, F

@HootyTheNightOwl it did about a week ago.

Stray4life · 26-30, F

@HootyTheNightOwl I was thinking this same thing. If his friend is a big part of his life then you really should except that. It sounds like it's always been that way so you should expect it to change