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I Have a Question

I wanted to like somebody who God keeps on warning me that they will hurt me....I have found healing in avoiding them and moving on...but he is a doctor in my local Emergency department...I know that we will cross paths...How do I face him, what if he does hurt me again?
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I think he is wisely avoiding you so that there is no appearance of compromise in his position.
schizosaint · 41-45, F
@SomeLikeItHot I was the one avoiding him.
@schizosaint Then you should be good. He has a Hippocratic oath that if he violates he will lose his high paying career. Believe me he is very afraid of losing his career.
schizosaint · 41-45, F
@SomeLikeItHot he is very abusive and violated my child, he never considered his hippocratic oath then, but I was too nice and told him that I forgave him and would not pursue filing a complaint, but the damage was done I'm still trying to forgive him for the repeated wounds he inflicted. I should have sought justice, and now I dread going to the hospital for fear that he may be on shift....I feel like the only thing I can do is to beg him not to hurt me again.
@schizosaint Don't beg him.
I am very certain that he will keep his distance from you and if he doesn't you can notify any nurse that you don't feel safe.
schizosaint · 41-45, F
@SomeLikeItHot the nurse is just as bad, she refused to call the doctor and sent me home the night my brain swelled and I almost died, they gossip trash about me, they don't care about me.
@schizosaint Make sure that if he is talking to you that someone besides yourself is there to witness everything.
That will keep him in line.
schizosaint · 41-45, F
@SomeLikeItHot best answer, If I need to go to the hospital Ill just bring someone with me....if I can...my family doesn't want to but I could invite my therapist.
@schizosaint anyone that you trust. A therapist might get a bit pricey.
schizosaint · 41-45, F
@SomeLikeItHot she is covered under my health care
@schizosaint You might want to ask her if a trip to the hospital would be covered.
schizosaint · 41-45, F
@SomeLikeItHot my old therapist used to come with me to the hospital all the time
@schizosaint Good, then you just might have an excellent plan there!