There's no straight answer to that This is the stuff of PhD research etc Female and male brains are different Genetics and environment influences and expression...
Women show more development for communication and men for eye hand coordination etc
The pain systems are different too
Risk taking in men is higher Dopamine etc Hormoness play a role testosterone increas s ambition and drive Oxytocin more trust and comfort and bonding Testosterone may reduce oxytocin binding therefore influencing bonding strategies etc
I noticed if I focus on fixing something as opposed to figuring it out then I have less stress on the situations. Like think less. Unless it's something that requires deep thought.