There's no straight answer to that
This is the stuff of PhD research etc
Female and male brains are different
Genetics and environment influences and expression...
Women show more development for communication and men for eye hand coordination etc
The pain systems are different too
Risk taking in men is higher
Dopamine etc
Hormoness play a role testosterone increas s ambition and drive
Oxytocin more trust and comfort and bonding
Testosterone may reduce oxytocin binding therefore influencing bonding strategies etc