I Have a Question

I have so many women in my life who tell me that I'm the perfect kind of guy in regards to personality, character, moral judgement, the way I view the world, how I help others, and most of all... how I treat women (the answer to that... with respect). Yet none of them are willing to date me or be a Friend with Benefits; yet they are willing to give it up on the fly to some douchbag that treats them in the complete opposite way.

I'm a descent looking guy... not handsome or great, but not ugly or grotesque; the happy medium if you will. They all tell me that I am a good looking guy; that I dress well both casually and formally. Yet I'm a permanent resident of the friend zone against my will.

So here is my question... why not me if I am so ideal?