Do you agree or disagree?

It can be.

No, we just make it hard and complicated because of our pride and selfishness.

it can be hard, but it's worth it with the right person.

Love is sweet

I love hard.

You can make it hard it can make it easy, depending on your attitude and your ability to love and comprise and negotiate the hard decisions in a marriage, it is your choice, unless you are in an abusive marriages, then get the hell out in any way you can !
Darlingrose