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i want to forget somebody

hey...first time here.Recently I made a habit of talking to a girl daily.The girl is very pretty and she is getting married soon. I knew this long ago but recently i started to feel bad about that and stopped talking to her. I never had any kind of love type feelings for her but after i stopped talking to her somehow I am thinking I love her. I mean I cant accept that she is going to marry somebody else and this is really happening.Is this possible that i am thinking just because the girl is pretty?

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valobasa4ever · F

[c=002673]Possible to ask her about her feelings towards You? Might be it's Just [b]You[/b]. [/c]

ARP1499 · 22-25, M

@valobasa4ever it's not that easy...she told me that i came little late in her life. her marriage was set before we started talking.. i knew this after one week. and the guy she is about to marry is a well settled doctor, and i'm a jobless person rn..so no chance of that

valobasa4ever · F

@ARP1499 [c=800055]Sorry to hear that . :-( [/c]

ARP1499 · 22-25, M

@valobasa4ever yeah she told me she started to have feelings for me which she shouldnt have done

Elevatorpitches · F

@ARP1499 differences in SEO status can destroy love for one partner like a bug spray bomb in a hornets nest😟

I am sorry that happened to you. Its happened to me too

valobasa4ever · F

@ARP1499 [c=800055]Having feelings for someone is not a crime . And she is not married . Yet. Anyway _welcome to [b]SW [/b][/c]

ARP1499 · 22-25, M

@Elevatorpitches SEO status stands for?

Elevatorpitches · F

@ARP1499 the difference between you two in wealth etc...😥

ARP1499 · 22-25, M

@Elevatorpitches i'm richer than him in family wealth and anything else...he is just a lot senior thats why...when i'll be in his age i'll be richer than him

ARP1499 · 22-25, M

@Elevatorpitches but he is a nice person must be... and the girl is practical as she must be..so..

valobasa4ever · F

@ARP1499 [c=800055]Never mind please _ family wealth is not consider as your own wealth . [/c]

Elevatorpitches · F

@ARP1499 wait... first of all I thought you loved a woman?

who is "he" then?

also YOU said there was a difference in wealth...???

valobasa4ever · F

@ARP1499 [c=800055]Age just a number , if she really likes you she should makes her own decision. [/c]

ARP1499 · 22-25, M

@valobasa4ever @valobasa4ever i know that is not right but only wealth should not be also considered to choose a man then

valobasa4ever · F

@ARP1499

ARP1499 · 22-25, M

@Elevatorpitches he is the person she is going to get married...

Elevatorpitches · F

@ARP1499 well more always comes into play like how much HOLD he has over her..and as you said it was a done deal so you are behind in the race

and the difference between the sexes in general power....might make her helpless enough to go with HIM although she might actually want you

Theres a sweet revealing movie about lots of that stuff called Telling Lies in America

ARP1499 · 22-25, M

@Elevatorpitches i know all these things but still not feeling good.. i know time will do that...1-2 months and i'll be fine but for now i'm not fine...

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Elevatorpitches · F

@ARP1499 I'm so sorry. True love is such a gift
and yet such a blinding TRAGEDY when idiotic STUFF gets in the way, and then you're alone again after getting so dammed close😭

ARP1499 · 22-25, M

@Elevatorpitches i used to think i'm a hardcore person but i was wrong

Elevatorpitches · F

@ARP1499 well maybe this tragic experience is a hidden sideways GIFT to "soften" u up a little?

I recommend Ram Dass and his studies in compassion including self compassion... his talks are all over you tube