@curious4now I know, sweetie. I have a lot of issues and I have to keep it public. I PM with very few and very little. It’s often too much for me. I suffer a lot of paranoia and have major trust issues. None of this is your problem but I do what I have to do to keep me safe. Sorry and I hope you understand. 🦋
@curious4now Do you have any kids? I know they are most likely grown, but do they know? There’s a lot of moving parts here. It’s easy for Amy, she’s been doing this for a awhile. This is a big upheaval for you. I know she wants it to be public and eventually it has to be for you both but timing matters, who’s told first matters. There’s a lot to consider. js
@curious4now I see a happy person. There’s no look of lesbian, regardless of what anybody says. We look how we look some of us girly, some butch, and some in between. I apparently look very straight but I’m not, so it’s like....
@curious4now Living close or not, if you are close with them emotionally, I would tell them soon. They may feel very hurt if the whole world finds out before they do. As far as your ex goes. It’s not his concern, but it’ll be easier for him if he has someone else too.
