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rckt148 路 61-69, M
I would hope it was not an "i'll see you later "meaning you are done with me
As adults we are entitled to different opinions and beliefs and we don't always have to agree to remain friends .
Way to often today that is a deal breaker with so many people and that drives me nuts ,to be blocked by a good friend just over a difference of opinion ,,I am not trying to convert anyone ,and a world full of Me's would be a very boring place .
If I don't totally agree with them ,we can't be friends ?
That's F'ed up .
If that is their standard that we can't agree to disagree but still agree on other things ,then I don't need that kind of person as my friend anyway
That is a form of control ,I have to buy you're love and respect with my total submission to you're will ?you're way of thinking ?
I went through enough of that with my family .
I stopped speaking to my brother for over a year over this very issue
I had to show him I was not a dummy and I could do very well without him ,and often times my techniques and ways of doing things were just as effective as his ,sometimes even faster (He owned the company I worked for ,but some of his ideals were BS ,,I respect my employers ,but if I am the one making you money ,and I know a better way ,what not at least hear me out ?I made his company ,our customers told him the quality of work improved 100% after he hired me ,many tried to hire me away from him )
My number 1 issue with him was over a habit I had that didn't effect him
I always did a good job ,but I was an adult too and was done with my brother trying to dictate the conditions ,don't do this or I don't need you or love you .
He would accept a gay brother in law ,but be ready to disown his own brother for smoking pot ,he and his wife were drunks .
He finally got the message and asked my forgiveness
I made him money ,his brother in law didn't
I am sure you and I are adult enough to have disagreements ,but still have mutual respect for one another
and you would never force upon me ,nor I you
Its my way or the highway
As adults we are entitled to different opinions and beliefs and we don't always have to agree to remain friends .
Way to often today that is a deal breaker with so many people and that drives me nuts ,to be blocked by a good friend just over a difference of opinion ,,I am not trying to convert anyone ,and a world full of Me's would be a very boring place .
If I don't totally agree with them ,we can't be friends ?
That's F'ed up .
If that is their standard that we can't agree to disagree but still agree on other things ,then I don't need that kind of person as my friend anyway
That is a form of control ,I have to buy you're love and respect with my total submission to you're will ?you're way of thinking ?
I went through enough of that with my family .
I stopped speaking to my brother for over a year over this very issue
I had to show him I was not a dummy and I could do very well without him ,and often times my techniques and ways of doing things were just as effective as his ,sometimes even faster (He owned the company I worked for ,but some of his ideals were BS ,,I respect my employers ,but if I am the one making you money ,and I know a better way ,what not at least hear me out ?I made his company ,our customers told him the quality of work improved 100% after he hired me ,many tried to hire me away from him )
My number 1 issue with him was over a habit I had that didn't effect him
I always did a good job ,but I was an adult too and was done with my brother trying to dictate the conditions ,don't do this or I don't need you or love you .
He would accept a gay brother in law ,but be ready to disown his own brother for smoking pot ,he and his wife were drunks .
He finally got the message and asked my forgiveness
I made him money ,his brother in law didn't
I am sure you and I are adult enough to have disagreements ,but still have mutual respect for one another
and you would never force upon me ,nor I you
Its my way or the highway
BalmyNites 路 F
Whoa, this is nothing that鈥檚 been said between you & I, this is just a generalisation 馃槉馃 As I said before, this mainly concerns when people actively seek out your opinion, you spend ages giving them honest advice - then they go do what they were always gonna do all along 馃榿馃@rckt148
rckt148 路 61-69, M
@BalmyNites I know this was not between you and I ,and you know I love you
not in a carnal way ,as part of my extended family .though those lips do something to me ,,LOL ..鉂わ笍
It was just a story as to how I see others that try and force their will on others ,,I know you and I would never have that problem
I have a very dear Sister here ,many things we don't agree on
But she takes me for who I am and we have had a mutual respect for one another a long time ,,
I see you and I on that same page ,,sorry if my reply sounded any different
I do tend to get carried away and go on to much sometimes
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not in a carnal way ,as part of my extended family .though those lips do something to me ,,LOL ..鉂わ笍
It was just a story as to how I see others that try and force their will on others ,,I know you and I would never have that problem
I have a very dear Sister here ,many things we don't agree on
But she takes me for who I am and we have had a mutual respect for one another a long time ,,
I see you and I on that same page ,,sorry if my reply sounded any different
I do tend to get carried away and go on to much sometimes
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