@MellyMel22 I couldn't be honest with her ,I hurt her feelings without even knowing .I was really jealous. Maybe i loved her too much. If you love someone but all it does is cause problems ,shouldn't you love them enough to want them to be happy,even if it means not being with you?
@lostforwords [i][c=#BF0080]I think if you love her enough it would be worth a shot to try to start clean with the truth. If she's miserable, she probably misses you a lot. Maybe being with you is what makes her happy..[/c][/i]
@MellyMel22 Thanks so much for your advice it's tearing me up inside being apart. i'm afraid she might be getting over me and i'll just drag her back into my mess.
@lostforwords [i][c=#BF0080]I understand, but I'd wanna know if it were me. The truth would change everything for me, if she means that much to you- give her the truth and let her decide. If she feels the same for you, you'll be glad you told her- if not, then it's just not meant to be and at least you'll know you did what you could. I know what it's like to feel that tearing apart inside. Worse comes to worse, you get the closure you need. [/c][/i]
