Would the world be a better place if we didn't keep associated others accountable for others mistakes?

@ElRengo it's how racism organically forms or misandry.
Women has awful men in her life, only ever find trouble with them. Eventually she starts hating men who never did anything just because they are men

@popmol

The problem is, just IMO, that not few of the reasons some men did what they did was not so cos solely individual stuff but cos in their cultural minds was "just because they are women".
It´s not easy to change the historical memory of such social validated prejudices.
May be at the present times is no more true that all men do such awfull things or that some still do it for their personal lack of maturity instead than because of misogyny.
But it still happens and it´s not a banality.

I hope that the times to come may bring better and fair interactions between men and women.

@ElRengo i never said that stuff didn't happen.

just saying if you only bring negativity to those doing it how would the world change.

@popmol
Yes, making a disctintion between good and bad ones is always a strong tool in the long long way to change the world.

@ElRengo i feel like many use bad experience gained by peopel acting bad agaisnt someone becasue of their bad experiences goes too far. like a virus!

@popmol
My friend, motivations are mostly individual, but facts trend to be social.

[@ElRengoi don't get this one.

@popmol
I tryed to say that the bad experiences so much women had and have have a comon cultural (and so social) ground that widely exceed individual cases.
But the personal way in which each one reacts to it may have significative variations.

@ElRengo indeed, but this isn't particularly about women.

@popmol
Sorry, I missunderstood the meaning of your post.

@ElRengo haha no worries, it was jsut in general i did give you the example of women. because its the easiest to explain.

but it meant in general. for any trauma gained towards a certain group then exercised bad behaviour to all of the others of that group to make them feel bad and worse even if they didn't do anything. that will sour their relationships with that group which does the same thing.

that's why when i hate a group i'll act nice to all off them to give them no reason to carry on the hatred.

@popmol
Aha!