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Are you stuck in a sunk cost fallacy? which one is it?

RenFur · 56-60, M
I don't think so. Of course I'm not sure what that is...
popmol · 22-25, M
@RenFur no its not how i was meant to be and by nature i want everyone to be happy.
issue is i'm constantly in my mind struggling between being bitter and not wanting to bother others with my bitterness. being annoyed because its not fair they made me bitter but others are innocent in all this.
RenFur · 56-60, M
@popmol

Are you really all alone in your personal life? I don't mean people on the internet. No understanding grandparents? No best school chum? I'd not like to know SW is all you have. All you think you deserve.
popmol · 22-25, M
@RenFur i have some friends but none on a psychological i need help or do you understand level, my best friend is same as me but is bitter towards everyone and glosses over or only jokes about it. we constantly joke about death.

both of us don't want to learn how to drive because both of us would just quickly turn the wheel and crash.

some family memebers understand but its not like they can do anything about.

plus i don't like airing my stuff as it could sour others days.
going back to the i don't want to ruin others days because of my misfortune.

the psychologists over the years did not help either.
Nope.
It was hard, but letting it all go was the start of a revelation for me.
popmol · 22-25, M
@OogieBoogie the revelation was the cool stuff if it helped!

aah in my case i constantly think about death so maybe its different as its a permanent easy solution to every wordly problem.
Most of my fear came from having something and maintaining it! absolutely terrifying that is!
@popmol the revelation is that change is inevitable - and that we can't base ourselves on what we have/own/keep.

The more we have ....the more we want ....the more we spend time over trying to keep 'it' , or upgrading to better 'its'.

When so many of those 'its' mean nothing in the long run🤷
popmol · 22-25, M
@OogieBoogie well i mean if yo uare materialistic, we are all pretty much dragons. as long as there's one who hoards like a dragon the others will too !

 
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