I Ask You,male Or Female What Would You Do If

OK, so I used to be on EP and I met some interesting people there. There was this guy and we became friends. Platonic, if that is possible. Of course there were some playful innuendos. After EP, we stayed in contact. He shared LOTS of personal information, so he was easy to find (stalk). Most of what he says are true, except I have uncovered some serious untruths. His age, marital status, children, ex, that's all true. Some things he has said about them are not, they are things that can't be undone. Now, he is supposedly in the hospital, ICU. Yet, he has made comments on his facebook page, so I know he is lying. Is he catfishing? He doesn't ask for anything. We've had a lot of fun talking about all kinds of things, not just personal things. I really don't want to stop talking to him, but I really want some ideas on some things I can do to kind of let him know that I know that he is pulling my string. Kind of call his bluff. Any ideas?

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SW-User

I was catfished seriously 3 times (2 intimate one friend) and each time I found out the lies it killed me.. killed the trust.. I'd say if you are sure he lied about something major.. get out cause it's prob not the only thing he lied about.. though I know it's easier said than done..

agreatday · 61-69, M

@chantau - me too.

notadumbblonde · F

Hi, girl, I've read a lot of your stories and I remember you from EP. This situation is just so ridiculously funny. Because we do talk about such random things. I think he just needs this to make himself seem macho or something. He can be so funny, but I know half the stuff he has told me about himself is just total Bull sh##.

SW-User

@notadumbblonde: yeah he/ahw went a lot in my back.. don't need reminders it's still very hard.. and when done to u it's not ridiculous but extremely hurtful

SW-User

@Chantou: I'm sorry just hard right now

notadumbblonde · F

@Chantou: sorry to hear you are going through such a hard time. Like I said, I've read some of your posts both on here and on EP. I think tho, when you were on EP, did someone still your identity and post things with your picture and your name spelled just a little differently? Because I remember reading somethings and thinking that just didn't sound like you at all.

SW-User

@notadumbblonde: yes Billy did..

notadumbblonde · F

@Chantou: I haven't heard that name in a while!!!

SW-User

@notadumbblonde: well if u read me you'll know it's me.. my genre is unique hehe