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Do you suffered from Hero syndrome?

[c=#359E00]yes.. you feel the urgency to step on every problem, you think that only you can clean the problem, you are the only one that capable to solve every problem, you are the most inspiring around here, you are the best and needed everywhere, people need you![/c]
Diamonddog · 26-30, M
I used to think I could fix peoples problems many years ago, time taught me that the only ones who could do that was themselves.
ScarletMoonEmpire · 36-40, F
[@877165,Chaoticneutral] [c=#359E00]this is the right mindset[/c]
Tatsumi · 31-35, M
I like to solve problems and help people, but I don't think I'd qualify for hero syndrome. I certainly don't think I'm the only one capable of solving problems and am fully aware of my insufficiency compared to a great many people. I think I have a decent amount of experience and knowledge which I like to share, but I don't think I'm quite *that* egocentric.

I mean, I'm pretty impressive, though. ^_^ Through much failure and perpetual insufficiency.
ScarletMoonEmpire · 36-40, F
[@437744,Tatsumi] [c=#359E00]i found the keyword : egosentric[/c]
SW User
Ehh no. I wish tho but i realized it's draining my energy
ScarletMoonEmpire · 36-40, F
[@813091,FriesAndSundae] [c=#359E00]don't do this[/c]
reflectingmonkey · 46-50, M
yes, i have that. i also feel a terrible burden as if the well being of everyone is my responsibility. drives me nuts.
ScarletMoonEmpire · 36-40, F
[@9310,reflectingmonkey] [c=#359E00]why don't see professional help?[/c]
reflectingmonkey · 46-50, M
[@659125,Kiriko] its not a serious problem, not worth the price of a shrink. i'M just too nice but its how i am.
DownTheStreet · 51-55, M
When I was young. But now I realize that most things have to work themselves out in their own
ScarletMoonEmpire · 36-40, F
[@325552,DownTheStreet] [c=#359E00]Maturity change people[/c]
DownTheStreet · 51-55, M
Experience adds that some problems simply aren’t yours to solve [@659125,Kiriko]
SW User
Sounds like the US
SW User
[@659125,Kiriko] One night stand? Did you us protection?
ScarletMoonEmpire · 36-40, F
[@831999,Allwaysthink825] [c=#359E00]i know you saw that one too[/c] 😔
SW User
[@659125,Kiriko] Yeah. I understand
Aussie69 · 51-55, M
Well, I once read the phrase: "He had looked all his life for the opportunity of quelling a riot" and it struck a chord.
Tminus6453 · M
Nahh..I'll give my 2 cents to the problem, whether it works or not is out of my hands🤷‍♂️
ScarletMoonEmpire · 36-40, F
[@27230,Tminus6453] [c=#359E00]good[/c]
SW User
I can. However repeated failure should tell me to temper my nature.
ScarletMoonEmpire · 36-40, F
[@14688,Nunos50] [c=#359E00]good[/c]
ZenPearl · F
I like helping people, but I'm by no means a hero
ScarletMoonEmpire · 36-40, F
[@674752,ZenLioness] [c=#359E00]good[/c] 👍️
UnderTheBridge · 46-50, M
And it's causing me a lot of stress.
ScarletMoonEmpire · 36-40, F
[@340283,UnderTheBridge] [c=#359E00]some people can't life without this[/c]
🤷‍♀️ Sometimes, I guess.
ScarletMoonEmpire · 36-40, F
[@605647,Nothingness] 😳

 
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